Items You Need to Create the Perfect Thanksgiving Table
Setting the perfect Thanksgiving table takes a little planning. Now is the time to check your tabletop inventory so you will have the items you need to make your Thanksgiving table a warm, inviting place for friends and family to gather around. I’m going to help you get started creating a pretty table to gather around because I believe that gathering around the table is the secret to a healthy family.
The nice thing about creating a tablescape is there is no right or wrong. The end result just has to make you happy and create a welcoming dining table for gathering that you will actually use regularly. I like to think of my tablescape in layers. Thinking in these layers will help you build your tablescape without becoming overwhelmed. You probably already have items for each layer so try pulling what you already have out and taking inventory of it. Then you will know which layer you need to buy for to create a welcoming table for friends and family to gather around.
In How to Upgrade Your Dining Space: Part 1 you can find information and ideas on new tables for your dining space. This Part 2 post will focus on dining chairs. You want people you love to gather around your dining table, strengthening relationships and sharing good food. Are your current chairs comfortable enough for people to linger at the table after dinner? Do you have enough chairs for everyone to sit? The chair suggestions below might help you narrow down the thousands of chair options out there.
Even if you aren’t in the market for a new table adding new chairs can create a dramatic change. If you aren’t able to replace all your chairs try keeping and using half of your old chairs and adding some new ones. Chairs that don’t match can create interest with different shapes and textures.
Here are some other things to keep in mind when buying new dining chairs:
Chair seat heights should all be the same.
A cushioned chair is more comfortable to sit at for extended periods of time.
When mixing chairs at a table stick in the same color family so they will coordinate.
Arm chairs will take up more space around the table than side chairs.
Top Picks for Chairs Under $300: Click on each image for more information.
Top Picks for Chairs Over $300: Click on each image to get more information.
In the series “Upgrade Your Dining Space” there are ideas for new dining tables, new dining chairs, new chandeliers, and here is an idea for a simple fall centerpiece. If you have old centerpieces you have kept from the past it is a good idea to freshen them up by rearranging them. Take the old one apart and see if you can repurpose the pieces. Try using some pieces you already have to make an arrangement similar to the one below. If you need some new pieces try Hobby Lobby and Michael’s.
The holidays are approaching. You want to upgrade your dining space so you have a wonderful place to entertain family and friends. Where should you start? Maybe it is time to upgrade your dining table? If so, you might consider the following:
Think round or square dining table because it is easier to make eye contact during conversation with everyone at the table.
Tables with pedestal bases make arranging chairs around the table easier because you don’t have to work around table legs.
If you aren’t quite ready to buy a new table then try…
Using different chairs at your table because mismatched chairs add interest to the space. You can find top picks for dining chairs in “How to Upgrade Your Dining Space for the Holidays Part 2“.
Painting your dining space. A fresh coat of paint is an inexpensive way to update your dining space.
I will be doing a multi-series post over the next couple of weeks with more ideas on upgrading your dining space for the holidays so make sure you sign up for the newsletter so you don’t miss any ideas. Click HERE to sign up!
Top Picks for Small Dining Tables:
This is a budget friendly option perfect for a small dining space. Click the image below for more information.
This is a 48″ inch pine pedestal dining table could double as a card/game table. Click the image below for more information.
This 50″ inch black table has a beautiful pedestal. Click the image below for more information.
Top Picks for Tables Larger Than 54 inches (A 60 inch round table will seat 6 comfortably.)
This is a beautiful 62 inch French country pedestal dining table. Click the image below for more information.
This rustic, round pedestal dining table made of pine and mahogany would be perfect for your dining room. Click the image below for more information.
This 54″ square table will seat 8 comfortably. Click the image below for more information.
It is the night before Thanksgiving. Family and friends are trickling in. The refrigerator is stuffed with food but you don’t have anything to eat tonight. Before you order that pizza give Southwestern Stew a try. It is the best recipe for the night before Thanksgiving! It is a quick, delicious meal that everyone will enjoy. You can even make it the day before and warm it up if you want to. Just brown some ground meat and open cans from your pantry.
2 pounds lean ground beef or turkey
1 can Ranch Style beans
1 can black beans (drain and rinse)
1 can refried beans
1 can diced tomatoes (Rotel if you like a little spice.)
This 3 step plan will help you create a grocery list and and meal ideas all in one place. It will allow flexibility in your meal plan which is needed especially on those evenings when the unexpected happens. Using this 3 step plan also allows you to focus on lean proteins and vegetables and it is as easy as making a list! Try sitting down on Sunday and listing 4 meats, 8 side dishes, and 2 left-overs using 2 of the meats. (I’ve included an example below.) This takes just a few minutes but will give you a plan and a grocery list for the week. You can assign a meal for each night if you like or make a decision day by day depending on the time you have. Try creating 3 of these plans and then just rotate through them every 3 weeks. Don’t forget to use the wonderful online grocery services with curbside and delivery services.
STEP #1:Pick 4 Proteins/Meats for the Week
pork tenderloin (Cook enough for left-over sandwiches for one meal.)
chicken breasts (2 per person for left-over menu.)
ground meat for hamburger patties (1/2 lb. per person)
salmon (one piece per person)
STEP #2: Make a Left Over Plan (Plan for 2 meals using protein/meat left overs.)
tenderloin and grilled cheese sandwiches (NEED: bread and sliced cheese)
Use left over chicken in tortilla soup, casserole or on a pizza (tortilla soup…NEED: chicken stock, onions, peppers, monterrey jack cheese, diced tomatoes, beans, tortilla strips)
You are going to have one less sitting at the family table each evening because you’ve got a child leaving for college. This is an exciting and scary time for everyone! You planned for this time in your child’s life. You’ve taught your child values and right from wrong. Legally, your child is now an adult. He/she is 18, mature and responsible, ready to handle college, right?
These questions can be overwhelming and scary but DO educate yourself. College life is different today than it used to be so it is important to try to understand what your child’s life is like on a daily basis.
DO share with your child about how college will be paid for (loans, savings, scholarships, etc..). Having him/her understand the payment plan will help your child understand the importance of being responsible while in college.
DO get the roommate’s phone number and roommate’s parents’ phone numbers.
DO send your child’s health insurance card with him/her.
DO show your child where the nearest minor emergency clinic is located. Don’t rely on the clinics on campus. They are not 24 hour facilities.
DO have a monthly spending budget in place. (Many college students eat out a lot, and travel on the weekends.)
DO set expectations about grades, drinking and drugs.
DO talk to your child on the phone or face time. It is important to hear your child’s voice.
DO have your child give you access to his/her school accounts. (Even if you pay the bill your child must grant you access to his/her information.)
DO expect that your child will ask for a week long vacation during spring break. (It is part of the entitled culture we live in.) So make a plan ahead of time. Will you pay for spring break? Does your child need to get a job to pay for spring break?
DO discuss an “exit” plan for social situations with your child. If your child finds himself/herself in a bad situation, who is he/she comfortable calling for help?
DO show up unexpectedly every few months just to “check-in” and get to know your child’s new friends.
DO encourage your child to get a part-time job at the university.
DON’T be naive and allow yourself to think, “Not my child. My child would never do that!” Your child is trying to make new friends and fit in. He/She will do things just to fit it!
DON’T call him/her every day. Your child will share more with you if he/she calls when alone and not around other people.
DON’T call or email professors. This is your child’s responsibility.
DON’T assume your child will always put academics first.
DON’T have bills such as: tuition, rent, books, electricity, internet, etc., sent to you directly. Instead, put the money in your child’s account and have him/her “pay” the bill. This will remind your child college is expensive and needs to be taken seriously.
DON’T assume your child will tell you when there is a problem. You will need to listen carefully and pay attention to changes in behavior.
DON’T “helicopter parent”. Your child will make mistakes. Let your child deal with the consequences of these mistakes. Hopefully, the mistakes are small.
DON’T be afraid to step in and take over if your child is not handling the responsibility of college. Remember, not every child is ready for college at 18.
Don’t let this list scare you. It is just a reminder that parenting is not over when a child goes off to college. Parenting a college child is a very hard job!
Here is some more information to educate yourself about the social pressures in college today:
It is that busy time of year again: new schedules, new activities… it is back to school! It is time to get organized so you can plan healthy meals for your family and not live on fast food. How do you start? Your freezer and pantry can help you make healthy, quick meals for your family every night if you have the right items in them. Remember, that colorful foods are your friend when trying to add healthier foods to your diet. So clean out that freezer and pantry and start over with the following items that will help you create healthy back-to-school meals for your family to enjoy around the table together even on busy nights!
Must-Have Freezer Items:
cauliflower bits (They freeze beautifully!)
fully cooked meatballs
easy peel shrimp (Uncooked, shrimp only takes 3-4 minutes to cook.)
ciabatta bread (freezes nicely)
Must-Have Pantry Items:
hearts of palm
fire roasted diced tomatoes
green enchilada sauce
red enchilada sauce
fire roasted red peppers in a jar
Kind bars (A healthy snack for any time of day.)
In a hurry? Try this Easy Freezer Meal using frozen shrimp, frozen peas, and frozen cauliflower bits.
Thaw and peel shrimp under warm water. (Don’t like shrimp? Try the recipe with frozen meatballs.)
Sautee 2 packages of frozen cauliflower bits in olive oil or butter (No need to defrost first.)
Add thawed shrimp to cauliflower and cook 3 minutes on medium/high heat stirring occasionally.
Add frozen peas to shrimp and cauliflower and cook 2-3 minutes on medium heat.
Season with garlic, salt and pepper to taste.
Serve with ciabatta bread.
Need a quick side dish? Try this pantry and freezer Black Beans and More side dish using black beans, chick peas, fire roasted diced tomatoes, sautéed peppers, and cauliflower bits. (Add shredded rotisserie chicken or browned ground meat and you’ve got a complete one dish meal.)
Cut 2-3 yellow or red bell peppers in strips and saute in olive oil until tender.
Add frozen cauliflower bits to peppers and continue to cook until cauliflower bits begin to brown.
Add black beans, chick peas and fire roasted tomatoes. (Drain and rinse black beans and chick peas.)
Cook on medium heat until warm. If you need a sauce for this dish try 1/2 cup picante sauce mixed with 1/4 cup Ranch dressing.